Sorry, I was on mute. But not anymore.

The platform where women in tech share what we actually carry - not what we're expected to perform.

Coming September 2025

Be the first to hear the conversations that change how we talk about tech.

Platform 75% complete

Get notified when the first conversations go live

This Is About Cultural Healing

In a world where women are often heard last, softly, or not at all - especially in technical spaces - Off Mute is creating room for the full complexity of our experiences.

Your struggles with technical leadership. Your insights about building inclusive engineering culture. Your journey from individual contributor to mentor. Your discoveries about what you actually want to build.

The real conversations happen in whispered moments after meetings, in DMs, in safe spaces where we can drop the performance.

What if we expanded those safe spaces?

We're building a cultural archive - not of what we're supposed to say, but of what we actually think and feel and know.

The Conversations We're Building

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The Commit That Changed Everything

Technical decisions that shifted entire trajectories and what they taught about trusting your expertise

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From Imposter to Authority

Growth stories, breakthrough moments, and the journey to trusting your voice in tech

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What I Actually Carry

The real behind-the-scenes of building, leading, and being human in technical spaces

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Building Different

Alternative approaches, conscious choices, and redefining what success looks like

The Reckoning

Breakdown moments, career pivots, and what comes after awakening

Real stories. Real voices. Real conversations about what it means to be human in tech.

Building Something Beautiful

Right now, I'm having the most incredible conversations with women across tech - senior engineers, startup founders, engineering managers, product leaders, designers who are redefining their industries.

Each conversation starts the same way: "Sorry, I was on mute. But not anymore."

What's happening behind the scenes:

Recording authentic conversations with founding speakers
Building a platform that honors these stories with beautiful design
Creating community spaces for connection beyond just content
Planning a launch that celebrates truth-telling in tech

The stories we're capturing:

-An architecture decision that saved a company millions (and what it taught about trusting technical judgment)
-The team meeting that fell apart and how rebuilding created psychological safety
-A career transition from Big Tech to startup founder (the real timeline, not the LinkedIn version)
-The side project that became a north star for authentic work
-A breakthrough moment when imposter syndrome transformed into confidence

These aren't just talks. They're invitations for other women to trust their own voices.

Founded by Katrina Mae - Defense Tech PdM, Creator of The Studio by KM

Join the Founding Community

Be part of the first group to experience Off Mute when it launches.

As a founding member, you'll get:

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Behind-the-scenes updates

as we build the platform and record conversations

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Early access

to the first talks before public launch

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Invitation to our launch celebration

with featured speakers and live Q&A

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First notification

when new conversations go live

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Priority consideration

if you want to share your own story

Have a Story to Share?

We're looking for women in tech who have real stories to tell - not polished presentations, but authentic conversations about the human side of building, leading, and creating in technical spaces.

Your story might be perfect if:

You've made a technical decision that taught you something important about yourself
You've navigated a challenging workplace culture or team dynamic
You've had an "imposter syndrome" moment that led to growth
You've built something you're proud of (code, team, process, culture)
You've changed directions, taken risks, or chosen authenticity over easy
You've learned something about being human in technical spaces

The process is simple:

-Tell us your story idea (just a few sentences)
-Have a conversation with me about your experience
-Record your talk in whatever way feels comfortable
-We handle the editing, branding, and beautiful presentation

Never spoken publicly? Even better. We're looking for authentic voices, not polished speakers.

What's Coming

Right Now

Recording founding conversations with incredible women across tech

August 2025

Building the platform, editing talks, creating beautiful branding for each story

September 2025

First conversations go live for founding community

Launch Celebration

Virtual event with featured speakers, community connection, and live Q&A

Beyond Launch

Monthly new conversations, community events, and expanding the movement

Want to be part of the journey?

Why This Matters to Me

May 29th, 2025 at 8:06 AM, I started crying in a work meeting.

After 8 years in defense tech, I realized I'd been performing engagement I didn't feel, speaking words I didn't mean, presenting a version of myself that got applause but felt completely inauthentic.

That breakdown led to breakthrough. But more importantly, it led to conversations.

The women I talked to afterward - friends, colleagues, women in my network - all carried similar stories. Real experiences of building, leading, and being human in tech that we only shared in safe spaces, away from professional performance.

Off Mute exists to expand those safe spaces.

I'm building this as part of the larger ecosystem at The Studio by KM, where we explore conscious career navigation and authentic success. But Off Mute has its own mission: creating cultural change through authentic storytelling.

Because sometimes you need to hear other women's truth before you can speak your own.

Katrina Mae

Founder of Off Mute & The Studio by KM
Defense Tech PdM | Creator of The Halfway Method

Ready to Go From Mute to Live?

Join the founding community and be part of changing how women talk about tech.

The first conversations launch September 2025

Questions? Want to share your story? Ready to help build this?

Email us: offmute@thestudiobykm.com

Because the conversations we're not having are exactly the ones we need to start.